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The Cost of Silence: How Holding Back Your Truth Disrupts Your Energy

Writer: Guillermina NealGuillermina Neal

Have you ever swallowed your words to keep the peace? Held back your truth to avoid conflict, rejection, or misunderstanding? At first, it might seem easier to stay silent. But over time, suppressing your voice does more than just keep the peace—it disrupts your energetic balance, weakens self-confidence, and impacts mental, emotional, and even physical health.





The throat chakra (Vishuddha) governs communication, truth, and self-expression. When blocked by fear, self-doubt, or conditioning, energy stagnates—not just in your throat but throughout your entire system. This misalignment creates a ripple effect, undermining everything from personal power and emotional stability to overall well-being.

Let’s explore how not speaking your truth distorts your energy, and why aligning your chakras is essential for true self-confidence, inner peace, and holistic health.


What Happens When You Suppress Your Truth?

When you hold back your voice—whether from fear, habit, or conditioning—the blockage doesn’t stay confined to your throat. It moves downward, affecting every major energy center:


  1. Throat Chakra (Vishuddha) – Disconnection from Authenticity

    • Suppressing your truth creates energetic congestion, making it difficult to express yourself clearly. Over time, this can manifest as tightness in the throat, jaw tension, frequent colds, or thyroid imbalances.


  2. Heart Chakra (Anahata) – Emotional Suppression & Resentment

    • Holding back emotions or words you needed to say can lead to resentment, unprocessed grief, and disconnection from your true feelings.


  3. Solar Plexus Chakra (Manipura) – Loss of Confidence & Power

    • Not speaking your truth weakens your sense of self, leading to self-doubt, fear of confrontation, and a shrinking presence in the world. You may feel small, unseen, or unable to advocate for yourself.


  4. Sacral Chakra (Svadhisthana) – Emotional & Creative Blockages

    • Suppression of truth can lead to stagnant emotions, lack of creative flow, and difficulty connecting with passion and joy.


  5. Root Chakra (Muladhara) – Instability & Lack of Grounding

    • Long-term suppression of your voice weakens your energetic foundation, creating feelings of insecurity, anxiety, and even physical symptoms like digestive issues or tension in the lower body.


The Long-Term Impact of Silence

When your voice is consistently stifled, your system adapts by:


  • Disconnecting you from your emotions (so you don’t feel the discomfort of not expressing them).

  • Weakening your intuition (so you stop questioning what’s wrong).

  • Shutting down your personal power (so you stop challenging situations that don’t serve you).


This misalignment doesn’t just affect energy flow—it creates stress, tension, anxiety, and a cycle of self-doubt that impacts mental clarity, emotional resilience, and even physical health.


Reclaiming Your Voice: Restoring Energetic Order with Reiki, Mindfulness & Healing Meditation

Speaking your truth isn’t just about communication—it’s about bringing order to your energy and restoring balance, confidence, and well-being.



The voice is not just a tool for speaking; it is a manifestation of inner truth, alignment, and presence. When your energy is clear, your words flow naturally. When it is cluttered, your voice becomes hesitant, strained, or silent.


1. Cultivate Mindfulness to Awaken Your True Voice (Observe Before You Speak)

  • Buddhist mindfulness practice teaches right speech—expressing words with truth, kindness, and purpose.

  • Before speaking, pause. Take a deep breath and ask:

    “Am I speaking from truth, fear, or a need for control?”

  • Mindfulness creates space between impulse and expression, ensuring your words are aligned with your integrity.


2. Strengthen Your Solar Plexus First (Rebuild Self-Trust & Power)

  • Place your hands on your belly and repeat:

    "I trust myself. I deserve to be heard. My voice is powerful."

  • Strengthen your core energy through movement, breathwork, or standing tall in your power.


3. Practice Healing Meditation to Clear the Heart & Throat Chakras (Dissolve Emotional & Energetic Blockages)

  • Sit in stillness, bring awareness to your breath, and visualize a soft blue light at your throat.

  • Chant the seed sound “HAM”, the bija mantra for the throat chakra, allowing its vibration to loosen energetic blockages.

  • With each breath, imagine words left unsaid dissolving into light, clearing the path for authentic self-expression.


4. Reiki for Clearing Blocks & Opening the Throat Chakra

Reiki is one of the most effective ways to clear energetic blockages in the throat chakra and restore flow to your entire system. A Reiki session helps:

  • Dissolve stagnant energy in the throat, heart, and solar plexus chakras.

  • Release fear of speaking up, past trauma, and stored emotions.

  • Align your energy so you feel safe, confident, and at ease expressing your truth.


5. Speak Small Truths First (Rebuild Confidence in Expression)

  • Start by voicing small truths in safe spaces—journaling, affirmations, or honest conversations with trusted people.

  • Practice saying “No” or “I don’t agree” in everyday situations where you’d normally stay silent.


6. Set an Intention to Speak with Clarity & Detachment

  • Instead of overthinking or fearing how others will react, affirm:

    "I express my truth with confidence and release all attachment to the outcome."


Are You Ready to Clear the Blocks Holding You Back?

If you’ve been struggling to express yourself freely, feel confident in your voice, or clear energetic blocks that keep you stuck, I have upcoming opportunities to help you break through:


  • Reiki Level II Class – March 1st, 2025 in Santa Barbara, CA.

    Learn how to work with Reiki to heal yourself and others, send energy across time and space, and deepen your understanding of energy healing.


  • 6-Month Coaching & Healing Program

    A transformational journey designed to help you clear deep-seated blocks, strengthen your energy, and build lasting self-confidence. This program is for those truly ready to step into alignment.


  • 6-Week Course for Energetic Alignment

    A structured program designed to help you reclaim your energy, balance your chakras, and unlock your voice with clarity and confidence.


  • Weekly Wednesday Healing Meditations on Zoom

    Join me every Wednesday for a live, guided healing meditation to release stuck energy, restore balance, and strengthen your connection to self. These sessions provide free (or by donation) ongoing support for deep energetic alignment and transformation.


  • In-person or online Healing and Coaching sessions.


👉 Contact me to join a program or find out more about what is the best way to support your healing and transformation!


When you take control of your energy, alignment, and voice, you take control of your life. You deserve to be heard. You deserve to express yourself with confidence and freedom.


In love and light,


Guille (Ghee-Jay)

Reiki Master/Teacher & Holistic Healing Coach


 
 
 

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